Lawyers report that more and more couples are signing relationship contracts detailing how often they will have sex. These "lifestyle clauses" are utilized by married and unmarried couples and can include how often the couple is intimate, how they spend their leisure time, and how cheating is defined. One sex therapist and marriage counselor says these contracts could be beneficial, saying, "I have found there can be a lot of joy in having structure and knowing what's going to happen." Other experts say the conracts may serve as a symbolic link in couples that are not married. One lawyer doesn't think these lifestyle clauses are always good, saying "They undermine a marriage rather than support it." (Daily Mail)

Misconception #1: She Should Look Better Than Your Main Girl

This is a definitive no-no. That's a straight shot to over-shooting your target. If your intention is to have a friend on the side, don't complicate it with things like beauty. Really though, the easier it is to stare at her is the harder it'll be to leave. I'm not suggesting you hang with a boogerwolf, but there's no need to further tempt yourself with a hot chick. No reason to carry a dime when a nickel will do just fine.

Misconception #2: You Need To Spend Quality Time With Her

Unless you plan on replacing your current love interest, there's no tangible logic behind getting to know her, and vice versa. And yes, it's entirely possible to spend time with someone without knowing their life story. You don't need to tell her yours, either. Save all that mental intimacy for the person who actually deserves it.

Misconception #3: The Sex Should Be Incredible

False. All bullsh*t aside, there's a thin line between good sex and makin' love. A wise man knows the difference between the two, and when to do which. Not knowing the difference between a soul connection and some slap 'n' tickle can have devastating effects. Avoiding those effects is relatively easy because your side chick shouldn't ever be at the business end of any bone-jarring sex unless you're ready to face the consequences. These include stalking, pregnancy, possible fights between her and your real girlfriend, etc. Tread lightly on unknown soil, my friends.

Misconception #4: There Should Be A Deep Connection Between You Two

Romantic candle-lit dinners and soft music isn't to be shared with just anyone. That's an environment you want to share with someone you trust and care about, not somebody whose number is stored in the phone under a fictitious name or title like "Cousin T." If she's not good enough to be your girl, she's perfect for fast food. No intended disrespect to any professional side orders, I'm just saying.

Misconception #5: You Have To Lie To Kick It

Negative. If ever there was a time to be honest-ish, it's now. If she doesn't know she's your extra value meal, then you're already in some sort of violation. Now you have to live that lie inside of the lie you're currently living. It's like the movie "Inception," with more humor and (probably) less White people. You want your side chick to understand her place in your universe - upfront and blatantly - unless you enjoy grocery store parking lot cat fights, paying for key scratch damage to your car, and/or death threats.

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DONNELL JONES RELEASES NEW SNIPPET: Donnell Jones has released a new snippet via YouTube called "Ride." He said about the track, "A LITTLE SNIPPET OF ME STEPPING OUT THE BOX!! I'M A MUSIC LOVER OF ALL KINDS OF MUSIC! SO RIDE WITH ME TO 'FOREVER.'" His new album Forever will hit stores on June 18th.

Listen to Public Enemy's "Catch the Throne:

Public Enemy's Chuck D has dissed Jay-Zand Kanye's hit "N*ggas in Paris." During a performance in Lyon, France, Chuck expressed his disgust with the use of the "n word" in the song. He later tweeted, "Standing ovation in Lyon France telling these folks we are African NOT Ngrs In Paris why I gotta travel PlanetEarth cleaning sh*t from USA?"

Chuck D explained that a white fan referred to him as a "n*gga," but he feels like black people can't get upset about it because we use the word. He tweeted to a fan, "He didn't know. It's a language cultural thing where thyv seen black men call themselves that like happy ass slaves for 20yrs."

• Chuck admitted that Jay-Z is a very, very sharp smart dude," but he should be more responsible for his actions.
• Back in 2010, Chuck D said about The Throne, "Hip hop celebrates those who wanna make a killing instead of a living. I like those guys, but they make me laugh sometimes because I don't get who they're here for, other than themselves."

Check out how some of you feel abut it:

• MR. UNDI$PUTED THE MOGUL on Allhiphop.com writes: "Chuck D is a certified Hip Hop Legend & I totally respect him however Jay & Kanye's song is kind of a way of mocking people who don't like Successful Black men with money. How many American Black men do you see in Paris walking around with enough money to do whatever they want with no care in the world?!"
• EQ on Allhiphop.com writes: "'calling themselves that like happy ass slaves'..smh,let it go chuck its 2013,enuff with the semi militant bitter attitude.."
• brotha_man on Allhiphop.com writes: "that's the prob now we chalk it up to the times 'things have changed we give up, we will submit'. be aware sh*t is still the same we need more militant brothas and sistas."
• Carlos on Allhiphop.com writes: "hip hop done went backwords, in the eighties nineties, we were starting to have our own identities and it was cool to be like chuck and to not do drugs. I don't know how it happened but we took mad steps back."

Clssic Public Enemy Joint

• Celz on Allhiphop.com writes: "I gotta side with Chuck on this one.. I use the word personally and have not issue with those that do.. But to use it that publicly is too far.. Using it among ourselves has stripped much of the negative power away but that doesn't mean you should title yourself as a 'Nicca in Paris'... Alot of old folks say you shouldn't use the word because you don't understand the pain associated with it.. And they are right but that's a good thing.. Our grandchildren will never have to experience that particular aspect of racism that our grandparents did.."

“””””””””HI Mr. Michaels, I am a married woman, early 30's. I am originally from the east coast and now live in Chicago. Before I fully transferred to my job here, I was flying back east for about a year. In that time, I had become involved with a coworker. I spent months being intimate with him while my husband was back here in Chicago. I regret it every day of my life, but my husband never had a clue of any of this. I have discontinued the affair, and have no plans of ever coming against my marriage again. I had been speaking with my sister about this because I have been carrying this guilt around for over a year now. She says that I won’t get over the guilt until I come clean with my husband and confess to what I had done. I don’t know if that’s such a good idea. I know it would hurt him too much and it may very well be the end of our marriage. Is it wrong for me to keep this to myself for the sake of saving my marriage? I don’t see how telling him would help, but I can’t seem to shake the guilt. Any advice would be appreciated.””””””””

The family of Emmett Till is set go after Lil Wayne's sponsors -- since he never apologized for his offensive lyrics towards Till. As previously reported, Wayne rapped on Future's "Karate Chop" remix, "beat the p*ssy up like Emmett Till."

• Till's family told Allhiphop that they will Wayne's sponsors, namely Mountain Dew.