Ahight, here we go, first one for the week. Check it out below: 

''''''''Hey Chris, okay please don’t judge me, but just be honest with me. So I’ve been with my guy for just over 5 years now, and like most relationships, the honeymoon period eventually does come to an end. I’m human, but I do know what I want, and that’s to be forever attracted to the man that I’m with. He is a great guy, but honestly he’s just not for me. I have 2 children (not his) and they absolutely love him and he loves them even more. I don’t know, but over the last 2 years plus, I have lost all feelings of attraction for him, and my heart is about 80% gone from the relationship too. The reason it’s so hard for me now is because 5 years ago, he started this Valentine tradition where he goes allllllllll the way out. I mean from flowers, bears, candy, etc. While I appreciate all that, I’m still not into him anymore. People do grow apart, and we just have. Not that he does or has done any wrong; I’m just not the same person I was when we first met. I want the most out of my relationship, including the sex, the laughter, the romance, hell I even want the arguments, just so we may have some sort of balance. I just think there is nothing else in his world but me, and that is the problem I mostly have with him. He is so predictable and centered only on me. Truthfully, I’m still in this relationship because of how he treats my kids, not even how he treats me. I mean, it may sound crazy, but I feel sorry for him if I leave because he really hasn't done anything wrong, it’s just who he is that I’m not attracted to mentally or physically anymore. So do I choose to stay just for the sake of my children which benefits them, but is dishonest to him, or do I stay go? At this point, I’m not happy, and in a few days is Valentines day, and I’m just not up for living this facade any longer. 

Ms. Really What Do I Do?'''''''''

Wow, she has to choose between living dishonest about her feelings, or lack there of, or for the children's sake. Which would be more hurtful and damaging? #GoInTruthfully