Ahight, here we go, the number 2 letter for the week and of 2013. Check it out below:::::::

"""""Ok Chris, so I read a lot of the letters you post on your fb page and while I can't relate to them all, it has shown me that a lot of couples have some real problems, not just me. I said that if I had not shaken this issue coming into 2013, i would write you. So here goes. I am happily married with a child. We are in our third year of marriage. I am usually very unpleasant with men, I give them a face when they stare or try to flirt with me. But there is this one guy that is doing business with my company and for some reason Ive been thinking about him lately. I know he is married as well. He's a bit older than me too. But there is something about him. I know he digs me too. About the beginning of December of last year I found myself fantasizing about him. And I have to be honest, i But none of us has taken it past a little harmless flirting. What should I do? Why I am I thinking about him? Please help!!!""""

Mannnnn!!!! Who can't relate to this? If you've been in a relationship before, you've been here to some degree. She's married, stated that she's happily married, obviously loves her husband and family life. However, she's human, every man didn't become unattractive once she became married, so she's having some natural reaction, but she's feeling guilty because of the fantasies that have evolved from this. The Word says if your eyes offend you, pluck them out. If your hands offend you, cut them off. Now if we were literal and obedient society, most of us would be without eyeballs and handless. So if we can't go around chopping and plucking, how do we deal with such fantasies of others while committed to our spouses. Is a fantasy something she can control? Should she give full disclosure to her husband? Honesty is what most women want, right? #GoIn