Ahight, here we go, first one for the week...


"""""Ok Chris, I know all men do get jealous and show their controlling side at some point. Every woman expects that and should understand that’s just part of a man’s make up. His macho and controlling side is where we differ as men and woman. Now here’s my dilemma, I can’t seem to get my guy concerned at all when it comes to him being worried about another man wanting me.  Even when I spend time with some of my male friends, my boyfriend does not seem to mind, and it’s making me feel as if he does not really love me. How do I know if he really does if the thought of another man having my attention doesn’t move him? Please explain and help.""""

 I say it all the time, some people don't appreciate their relationship unless it's filled with drama. Some gotta have drama in it just for them to realize they're in a relationship. However, I understand her concern, and it leads me to this question. Ladies, is it more attractive for your dude to be incredibly passive, and allow you so much freedom that he's not moved or threatened with your liberty? He could just be super secure, right? Or is it more attractive that your dude posses some respectable level of jealousy in him? After all, he should wanna knock somebody out over you at least once so that you'd know he had a f****** backbone, right? #GoIn