Ahight here we go, 2nd one for the week. Check it out below:

"Hi Chris, Ok my bf and I have been together for nearly year and half, but every time I talk about marriage he flips out, I told him that I'm not going to wait 10 year or 5 like many women do, why is he so afraid? Is he being selfish is there nothing I can do?"

Man, this is too easy.... Fellas keep it ONE THOUSAND with the answers. What is the real reason or reasons you stay away from getting hitched? #GoIn

A man shouldn't need more than a yr to know if he wants to marry you anything longer than 2yrs he is just wasting your time and you should find someone else who is ready to get married

The worst thing 1st off is trying to force the issue the main reason for not doing it is the thought of everlasting commitment and if we're not ready we're still trying to Soak our royal oats...

 Or you could be more patient and observant a year and a half is still the beginning. He may not even know something as trivial as your favorite color or more significant your birthday off hand so bringing up marriage can potentially scare him off especially if he is one to live in the moment but with time and observation you will know whether or not he is even interested in longevity let alone monogamy. Most men in year 1 & 2 barely knows his womans whole name. Relax a little ease up.

You can't put time when it comes to love just because you been together for a year doesn't mean you two are even in love enough to be married you need to find out where you two are when it comes to love, commitment, honesty, respect, and so forth don't rush it trust me you'll they regret it if the time isn't right

Everyone just about summed it up... You can't force someone to marry you by ultimatums or threats. Did u truly ask yourself is he marriage material or you just one of those women that want to say "MY HUSBAND THIS, MY HUSBAND THAT" and ya hubby aint shit...ijs I mean really a year?? Do you know his credit history, does he owe child support that will become one when married? Some WOMEN are in love with the CEREMONY not the commitment of being married. Also you may need to evaluate some things yeah he may sleep wish you but do you possess wifey expectations on his part??? Slow down everything happens for reason