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Hi, I’ve been with my man for about a year, I'm 20 he's 25.I feel so trapped and confused bcus I don't know how to leave. Whenever I get ready to, he tells me that I'll be lonely and never find anyone else, he calls me names like ho and trick. Last time I tried leave, he sent pictures of him burning things I got him. But then when we get back together he says it's his authority and I should respect it, that he only does it so I'll be afraid to do the same things again that piss him off. He tells me I won’t go anywhere bcus outside of him it’s nothing but dogs out there. He always blames me for our arguments and I feel worthless but I'm scared to leave him. He tells me I’ll never find anyone. I love him and I feel bad like I’ll hurt him if I leave, I'm also scared bcus he may hurt me or himself please help.
POOR CHILD!...LEAVE CUZ NXT HE GONE BEAT U. IF HE AINT ALREADY!
LEAVE....YOU DONT WANT TO BE ON THE NEWS...
fuk him and the horse he rode in on !! loser !.... HE’s the one who can’t find no else put up with that BULLSHIT,,,it’s a mind game ,,n if he gon hurt himself OH WELLLLL STUPID MUTHR FKR,,,, n if he talkn about hurtn YOU ,, go make yo grits !!!!
Put your big girl panties on and leave! Your to young to feel like you wont be loved. Jesus loves you and this relationship is not healthy its controlling and before you are truly in to deep, just leave...dust yourself off and try again. You need to find out that there are guys out there that will treat you better and wont have you living in fear. Nip this one in the bud. A year aint that long, let it go. This is not the way u want to spend the rest of your life. He is a waste of time. Ask God to help you girl dont go for it. And dont give him nothing else to burn, thats a waste of $. Dont be brainwashed. Ignore.com. Once you look back u will realize he just tryna control u.....maybe until he find his next victim and lets you go. Dont be no fool
First of all he is a coward!! Put your emotions aside and do whats best for you. Get an order of protection and a new #. By no means do u open a window of communication. Take the lil heartache and live the rest of ur life! Nothing about this screams love smh....if u stay be ready for more verbal abuse as well as physical. Too many women put up with foolishness like this and its sad but u gotta be crazier than these nuts n flip the script
Goodness hun leave...u do not need to be with someone who does not respect you. My mother always said yourself should stay #1 no matter who you think you love and you are not putting yourself first if you continuously get back with someone who has clear controlling issues and does not know how to properly treat you....who cares if he burns stuff u got him that's his loss n it will be his grave loss when u stand proud and leave like a strong woman.
You 20...you will most definitely find someone else.... But before you do that you gotta love self first & know your worth. You too young for what he tryin to put you through or any woman. So what he burnt your gifts....I wldn't buy him another thg... Where are your parents, siblings? You deserve better you should be enjoying your 20's they only come around once!
Coming from a man, he feels like your weak. He feels he can control your mind because you allow him too... try ignoring him for one week and watch how stressed out he'lll become... if he says its dogs outside tell him u gone remember to wear yo flea collar... if he try to beat u then call the mf'ing police. Its all about controlling the situation. I think I feel in love wit my fiance even mire because she will never let me walk over her. If he loves you he will straighten up, he just feel like he's in control, and if u want this to end, then take control sweetheart......
And p.s. next time he try to burn some shit u bought him, tell him don't forget to get the bucket of water on deck so he wont burn his ass.. lol if u show him that what he does doesn't phase u then there's no fuel for the fire...
Wow, she's allowing him to manipulate her into staying with him, the worst part about it is the longer she stays the worse his antics are going to become
Obviously U know what he's doing to u dont feel good & its not right or else U would not be seeking advice....B4 U kick his ass to the curb take some notes...Make him a Pitcher of Lemonade & PISS IN IT, MAKE HIM SOME BROWNIES & PUT A WHOLE BOX OF LAXATIVES IN IT MAKE SURE U PUT KRAZY GLUE ON THE TOILET SEAT B4 HE TAKES A DUMP SO HIS ASS WILL GET STUCK ON THE TOILET (LITERALLY)...WHILE HE'S ON THE TOILET RELEASE A JAR OF SCORPIONS AT LEAST 12 OF THEM & LET EM EAT HIS ASS UP.....PLEAD TEMPORARY INSANE WHEN THE COPS COME LOOKING FOR U....make sure U tell the judge 5 different People Live in your head & the "BITCH THAT DONT TAKE NO ISH WHO LIVES INSIDE U DID THE CRIME!"













