Ahight, here we go. This one I need the fellas responding, the ladies need the real on this one, Check it out below:

“Hey Chris, here goes a question for your guy listeners. My girlfriends and I were having this discussion at dinner over the weekend. Most of us are currently single & while at the restaurant we all noticed a few guys some together and some alone. The topic came up as to whether guys find women who make the first move attractive or unattractive. Me personally, I believe men are more intrigued by the chase, and if you put yourself out there openly with interest to a man, it sort of takes away his interest. So do guys find a woman making the first move attractive, or does it diminish his interest if he has any at all. Thank You, Love Diamond”

Ok, there’s a difference in a woman baiting a man, vs a woman who really makes the first move. For the woman who makes the first move (the initiator), as men here are some of the things that may come to mind: 

TURN OFFS: Unladylike, Venerable, Easy, Thirsty, Aggressive, Unsafe, Forsaken, Untrustworthy? 

TURN ONS: Confident, Strong, Sensual, Real, Sexy, Freak?

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 It depends on the woman and her approach. You can tell if this is new for her or if it's the norm. If its new it could be a good thing if it's the norm then I'm looking at you like I ain't the only one you approached.

 Honestly, I've always been the kind of guy to find it really attractive if a woman shows some interest, even if that means her making the first move. I like it, it's not a turnoff at all; but then again, it may just be because I'm shy haha... But really; women who make the first move come off confident and is a sign that they aren't playing games; they're serious.

 it's definitely a turn on to have a female come at me just the fact that she knows what it is she wants is a plus, and if she turns out to be that one I wouldn't look at her any different individuals need to think about what attracted them to that person in the first place so if it turns into something more serious it shouldn't matter that she was a pursuer at all.

 personally, I think it's the way it's done that makes a huge difference. I've seen women so smooth with it, they made me almost think it was my idea ( lol). On the other hand some woman can be so reckless and over the top with it, that its a turn off and it makes you question, man, what's up with her that she gotta approach me like that, and what's up with me that she THOUGHT she could approach me like that

 Okay, I honestly prefer a woman to approach me if I'm dining out by myself at a cafe or lounge. It's highly interesting and a TURN ON for me to have a woman approach me. It catches a man off guard when a woman comes out of nowhere and tells him he's caught her eye. It doesn't make a woman no less of a woman if she goes after what her heart desires. Though, I have yet to experience this Lovely Experiment I would love to see where it goes for some men. A woman's heart is as precious and soft as a newborn baby skin. I highly recommend a woman going for what she wants, a REAL MAN that's my opinion on this.

 A woman that is that confident and secure in herself and willing to put herself out there somewhat is all kinda sexy and attractive, but if u approach me and I feel like I just got macked to ( hey I'm getting old) or I'm your last opportunity to fulfill your biological timeline your grandma keep telling u about, keep it moving darling!!!

 I think its not what you do its how you do I persued my guy an it was a turn on to him as well as me we are still together an married 20years next year i think its sexy

 when a woman wants a man... She is secure, strong minded and have a sense of taste in men to make her initiate. I've had a woman pursue me or break the ice to initiate pursuit and I was quite impressed and more intrigued that she would make the first move. Unlike certain woman, men will quietly determine whether she is more than conversation or bedroom exercises. And the majority of women that initiate first are ladies!