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Hey Mr Michaels I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop how he deals with other women. I know him as being very friendly, and it is was one of the first things that attracted me. However, after a year he should tone it down. He uses terms of endearment with way too many women for me, & it comes off as he’s flirting with other women. I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. I know he loves me because he told me first and he is a genuine person, but I hate feeling like I’m sharing him. What should I do, because he feels like how he talks to other women, using all the baby and sweetheart terms are innocent, but what separates me from them?
Ahight, I gotta say that I can relate to being the accused in this letter. Dammit, that's all I'm going to say. #GoIn I'm watching closely!!!!
Men are gonna flirt, whether they do it around u or behind ur bk...wat seperates u frm thm is HIM cumin home to YOU....
#AllDaAnswerI'dNeed
What attracted you to him...attracts other women to him also. You knew what you were dealing with when you got with him, you can't change him. Either accept it as his personality or move on but he is who he is. My guy flirts, I know he flirts, hell I flirt also cuz I love men and love to talk ish...real talk, he's with you f$$$ the rest, sit back and smile he's coming home to you!
As a woman you have to understand a man will be a man and you can't change a man....I will say there is a time and place for everything and he should most definitely be concerned about how you feel and how his actions are affecting you ....Sit down with him talk about it and give him time to genuinely address your concernes ..... If he doesn't do what you feel needs to be done then of course it's up to you to decide what your going to do .....Blessings
I think we need some testosterone in this comment..... haha, don't jump on me, but some men just flirt, it's what we do.... but although we may flirt with other women, there is honestly only ONE who will hold our hearts, and (some) guys aren't crazy enough to lose what they have over something that isn't guaranteed the next morning.
Personally, if I'm single, I will flirt, But when I'm in a relationship, I don't. Why? Because I know I wouldn't appreciate it.... Flirting while in a relationship doesn't honestly show respect, primarily if you do it in front of the other person. But keep the flirting to a minimum, which I hope he does; because he wouldn't like to wake up in the morning not having his woman there; So, I want to say this: As long as he's coming home to you and is keeping you ABOVE all of these other women, just talk to him about it and tell him how you truly feel. Sit him down and have a heart-to-heart. If he cares to the least bit, I'm sure he would hear you out and at least ATTEMPT to change. Good luck to you !
I disagree with what I'm reading do anyone have any RESPECT for they self or others come on ladies. If your his one and only love in his life, let alone has eyes just for you none of this disrespectful shit would be going on. He would respect you to the fullest no matter what. When you told him how you felt the first time he would of changed it. Smdh
characteristics or not he shouldnt act the same as he did when he was single he should give his woman respect. different strokes for different folks ijs. treat people how u want to be treated.
For all u ladies tht r claiming he flirting because he uses terms of endearment....YOU ALL ARE CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!My dad speaks to every woman by saying Hello Dear so is tht flirting hmmmmmm.....nevertheless so older woman say heyyyy babe in general....the problem is tht u hv insecurities within urself and cant deal with his real persomality now tht hes all urs. If he has been doin this from day one plus u say he is genuine then suck it up get everyone out ur ear and and love him. Ill stop there but plzzzz dont b insecure to his genuine heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!













