*******LADIES, CHECK THIS ONE OUT******
This one is actually about a month old, I just forgot about it. Check it out below:
“Chris, maybe your male audience can answer this for me. Is it preferable to fake an orgasm so he thinks he's "done it," or to tell him he sucks in the hope he will improve, or to just act like you really feel – like "oh, that was nice, glad it was fun for you? I even tried to make it softer, like "hey, honey, next time let’s see if you can find my G-spot…" or "hey, how about we get warmed up in the tub first…" but that doesn't seem to improve things. In fact, it seems to me that guys have pretty tender egos around performance issues. I'm not saying I can't get along without an O – I like the warmth of it all and when he gets it off its’ a big thrill, but there is room for improvement… So my question is, without bruising a man’s ego, how do men like their advice?”
Ahight, I only have one question on this one. Ladies do you think that with most of us men, our egos are so big in the bedroom, that we are above criticism, therefore we wouldn't be receptive to your guidance and advice?
I think that if we do give guidance or advice y'all think we are controlling...if u not hittin it than I have to help you out...damn I would like to get off too...and if I have to fake it then that is a waste of time...ijs..
Damn, this story is hurting me and I'm not even her guy. But in all means I dont believe any woman should fake an orgasm. Especially when its involving a man giving his girl the business. If she fakes an Orgasm just to hype up his ego that's consider playing with his emotions. That aint cool. She should just be honest, and tell him he ain't hitten that spot right. Rather than lieing to the brotha, I just don't understand the logic in deceiving him that's all.
Ok...Chris you keeps it real so I will do the same. It ain't easy to tell a man he ain't putting the dick down like that. After he done did all that huffn, puffn, sweatin, buckin, and fuckin he think he done did da damn thang when really...he DIDN'T. But women let them think that just to keep from hurting their feelings /egos. SOME men act like they (feelings/egos) are connected to the dick!!! That's why these lil dick men round here thinking they working with and doing something!!! AIN'T DOING A DAMN THANG!!! LOL
YES!!! i feel like a man cant be a MAN if he dont have a ego. thats 1 of the equalities that attract us women. We just have 2 learn & find a way 2 talk 2 that man with out getting his feelings hurt. It all depends on how comprehensive that man is. Am sure most men dt want 2 hear that they R not satisfying us enough but i doubt if that man would rather hear fake Oos & Aas. Thats something that it would need 2 b discus.
You should never fake it, instead tell him, "Wait, lets try it this way." Lead the way and show him what you like. A real man gets off by pleasing you, just as much as it pleases you to see him get off.













