"Hey Chris, Here’s my Question: Do men daydream about being in love? For example, do they think about being with their wives or girlfriends, about the possible conversations they might have when they see each other later in the day, about the particular feelings that might exist between the 2 of them? Or is it that men just focus on the sex part in their daydreaming and relationship? I was told by a male friend that men only become involved and married because of the expectation of life, but no man really just wants to give up all his freedoms and options. So do men reallllly fall in love and stay there or not?”

Wow, do I daydream about being in love with my lady. Do I daydream about talking to her, listening to her very long descriptions of how her day was. Do I daydream about what we will be like 20 years from now? Do I daydream about holding hands as we're walking barefoot in the sand, under the moonlight? ----------------> Or do I just daydream about different ways of folding her ass up? Ladies/gents:

I can say that I day dream about the future of us being successful together. Jay and Beyonce type deal. But WTH is she talking about?

I know the answer Chris would give....D)All the above...If you are in Love because of the person and not lust than Yes, these things are constantly relevant on your mind.

 That's definitely a bunch of bullcrap that men don't want to settle down.First,NO man knows about what all men are thinking.He only knows of what he personally experienced and whathe hears from others(usually myths and lies)If you have the right woman in your life,you wouldn't be giving up options and freedom.She will add to your life,not subtract from it.I can't speak for every man but I sure dream about settling down with a wonderful woman when I'm sleep and awake.....I've had it before when I was younger,messed up and I pray to God for another chance to experience it again.....

 Lol, I had to read the question twice, it is true that men and women are wired differently, men do not think of love the same way a woman does but it doesn't mean that we don't want or need it, or think about it, when a man describes love it's going to sound a lot different than when a women does

 some men don't speak openly when it comes to love but we want the same thing love,respect, and honesty not to mention being faithful if we are deep in a relationship or marriage for that matter often at times women say they want these things but the minute it is given to them the man is consider weak not all women but some think that way and for that reason alone some men will not display those feelings no matter how much love he has for the woman.