Ladies, has your dude stop making an effort to blow your back out? Check it out below:

"My issue is this Chris, my bf has put his sex drive, and can’t remember where.. He never initiates anything anymore! It has come to a point in our relationship where I am egging him on all the time. Most of the time I get nothing from him. I’m 22, he’s 24, so he has no erecti

le dysfunction issues, he is not cheating, he doesn't even work., & I know for a fact he loves me, but I worry that he's so content that he feels he doesn't even need to try anymore. We've gone from 4-5 times a week to maybe 1or 2, mostly once a week. When it comes to sexing it up he doesn't even help start my engine! It feels very much like he is too lazy to bother. I have not gained weight, I have not changed in this year in a half, if anything, I put more effort in now, than I did at the beginning. So now what? He lost his sex drive, but he needs to hurry up and locate it. Help me!”


Sooooo ladies, just a few questions I have for you. Does your dude’s sex drive fluctuate? If the frequency is lessened, does that spark a red flag for you? How much time should occur before you see any change that wouldn’t alarm you? What do you think the average amount of times per week normal couples have sex?

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Something is going on with him mentally...There is a mental distraction and not until it is resolved then you will be in this by yourself. It doesn't mean he loves you any less but he has to let go of whatever is blocking his focus before he is back on track. I have date a gentleman on two separate occasions and ending up leavn because he became distracted. I really enjoyed him as a person but some ppl just can't jungle two things at one time.

Hmm...I wonder if it's mental for him? I say that because u mentioned him having NO job, which for a man means he cannot provide ( what they value most) it may be an ego thing..he loves you, sure, but maybe right now he has sortof given up..when my man got laid off his drive decreased significantly, now that he's working he definitely more tired but he makes effort regardless..3-4 times a week is normal for us!!

Reading all the ladies comments about him being distracted by not having a job seems accurate. Although you can't put anything past anyone... if you trust him and know him well then understand that his mind could be preoccupied with how he can get back on his own feet and provide for himself and his lady. As much as he still needs to satisfy his lady, this is one of those times where as hard as it may be, his lady needs to support this hard time, be patient, and hold him down long enough to see if things change once he is back on his feet. Then decide. But I'm almost sure that if that's the issue, once he is back working and stable again, she gonna be saying she can't "take it" lol.