"We all have that little voice, that soft internal whisper that tells us when something’s not quite right in the old romance department. The problem is we don’t always listen to it, especially when other people are whispering in our ear, interfering with the signal. “I was out with a group of friends at a local bistro and there was a man there who was obviously interested in me,” says Debbie B., a 45-year-old engineer from Portland, OR. “I wasn’t the least bit attracted to him, but my girlfriend kept telling me that I needed to be more ‘open to the possibility’ of something happening. I’m sure my two-year hiatus from dating was beginning to concern her.”
So, Debbie ignored her gut and went on a date with the guy anyway. Unfortunately, within minutes of sitting down together, she was already looking for the door. “For starters, he was loud. As in, everybody in the place would turn and give him a dirty look,” says Debbie. Then there were his mafia conspiracy theories… and his firm conviction that granting women the right to vote was “the worst thing that ever happened in American history.”
“I was convinced I was being taped for an episode of Punk’d,” says Debbie, “but I finally excused myself, gave our waitress some money and walked home. From now on, I listen very closely to my inner voice. It has never been wrong.”"
Ladies!!! Why do you do this to yourselve selves?? I mean, you guys already know from the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if you should date him. And ladies, yawl know in the first 30 seconds of sitting down with a guy if you should continue the date. But what do you all do?? You go on the date. You stay on the date. Why?? Because you are either lonely and desperate or just too nice! #Sorry, but I said it. Only lonely and desperate women and too nice women will be with a guy they are not into from the beginning. But you would put up with the date anyway so yawl will not be lonely or labeled a "mean B." But ladies, I am here to tell you, just be true to your selves. In the end of the day, it is about your true happiness! And remember, just because you are alone does not mean you are lonely! Enjoy yourself and love yourself! Relationships and sexual encounters are easy to find, but true happiness starts from within. You all are beautiful, intelligent, and you ladies are worthy of much more than just settling. Be true to yourselves and do not settle for less than you are worth. I do not care what those "relationship books" tell you, you do not have to settle for a man at Burger King if you work on Wall Street! #GoinIn
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